I'm beginning to feel that if Lou ever moves (He's this guy and this guy), I'd have to close up shop and call it a day.
This guy is blogging GOLD!
Where do I begin?
Oh! I know! Thursday!
On Thursday, Lou came to me before lunch and said he'd like to talk to me about a problem he's having with another student.
Since his M.O. is usually to push, shove, stomp, or scream at a kid, I was pretty impressed with this move so I arranged for him to talk to me at lunch.
At lunch he strolled in, pulled a chair up to my desk, and said:
So you know how I take that medication, right?
I do. ADHD meds.
Well, I take it mostly because I have a hard time controlling myself. Sometimes, when I get mad, I lose control and hit kids.
Well, I think I'm gonna hit Sammy and I don't want to do that.
Well, you see, he's always bugging me, following me, and he won't leave me alone. I've asked him NICELY to play with other people but he just won't go away.
(Insert image of Lou screaming LEAVE ME ALONE! LEAVE ME ALONE! LEAVE ME ALONE! in Sammy's face.)
I know his methods might be a bit, shall we say, abrasive, however we work with the tools we've got. Lou hasn't taken a swing at Sammy yet so I'm all good with what's happened so far and pretty durn impressed with his willingness to ask for help.
So I tell Lou that I agree with him in that he and Sammy should not be playmates for awhile. I say I'll talk with Sammy about finding some other playmates; however Lou has to agree to stay away from Sammy as well. If he initiates contact with Sammy, all bets are off.
Jump to late in the day on Friday, when I finally have time to pull Sammy aside and talk with him alone. He readily agreed to find other friends to play and stay away from Lou. The whole encounter was over in less than two minutes and Sammy said about two words. As I am talking to him, I see Lou watching us and feel that great teacher feeling you have when you know you're winning over a tough nut who trusts no one.
(Insert image of Lou accepting the Nobel Peace Prize and in his speech he thanks Mrs. Lee because she was the one he "could always rely upon". Camera pans to an older, yet surprisingly stylish me, wiping away a tear using a tissue handed to me by his mother who is forever grateful for the impressive impact I had on her son.)
As we leave for lunch, Lou stays behind the rest of the class and says:
So, you know how Sammy just told you about how I pointed my binder at him like a gun, cocked it and pretended to shoot him with it…
…over and over again?
(Insert furrowed brow head nod from me.)
Well, I didn't do that.
And that is why, ladies and gentlemen, less is more. Lou had to be suspended for the rest of the day because even imitating guns is a suspendable offense and Two-Word Sammy had a great afternoon.
Saturday, October 9, 2010
Posted by Edna Lee at 6:21 PM